Does Queen B have a Happy-Ever-After at all?

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Chuck and Blair back again!

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Looks like the King and Queen of schemes is in their way of making a new plans again, but with whom? Hope your not holding any grudges against your father, Chuck for stopping your happy ever after.

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Oh! Is Chuck kneeling in front of B? There could be a lot of reason for that, but I only know 1 why would a guy do that. I think I'm hearing wedding bells now...

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Rumor has it that Chuck Bass and Blair Waldorf will truly marry each other... but under conditions? That's just so B & C

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B & C Unconditionally and Irrevocably in love with each other...












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Looks like Blair and Chuck haven't gotten over their trust issues yet. Yes, Upper East Side a wedding will push through unless one of them will not complete their to-do list...then  the wedding will be considered null and void












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My oh so loyal sources told me that one of the couple wasn't able to comply to all the to-do list which of course considers their wedding null and void. But who among them did not complete it?










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Church bells, flowers, guests and wedding gown. Is a wedding going on?

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Queen B on a blue long gown. That looks good on you, B. However. it bothers me to see you in that dress. Not unless you're in a costume party, I think that is a wedding gown your wearing. But why are you standing their alone B? Shouldn't you be with your King?




















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Uh-oh! seems like the Queen has been ditched. Runaway groom, I see? Does this mean that it was Chuck who wasn't able to complete the list?

With all the ta... ta... ta... and the blah! blah! blah! I know Blair and Chuck or Chuck and Blair will end up together and Queen B will have her happy ever after. Will all the things she'd been through, she deserves one. Want proof, everyone?

Chuck will fight anything... anyone for Blair

Perfect couple, eh?

That kiss just complete the fairytale love story. With the witch, foes and friends at the back I presume

And so they live happily ever after

 

 

Oops! Looks like it's not just Blair and Chuck who'll say their I do's

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Match made from heaven.  A friend of mine told me before that if a pretty lady ends up with a not so pretty lad, you call it... pity. And if a hot man ends up with a not so hot woman, you call it... true love. But when a handsome prince meets a beautiful princess, then you call it a match made from heaven. As if! Don't get your hopes up, princess because not all fairytales have a happy ending and you might just end up kissing your frog prince. Just keep your fingers crossed. 

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l'origine #101

prima deesse /prima deyez/

I love Europe especially Italy and France. I find the people, the fashion and the language very seductive. How could I find a perfect name for my blog, than to play with the flirtatious Italian and French words. Prima is an Italian word for first or before and deesse is a French word for goddess. Ergo, my blog name means the first goddess.

5 steps to move out of stagnancy in life

In the journey of growth, there are times when we grow and excel. We are endlessly driven and hyped up, motivated to get our goals.

Then there are times when we stagnate. We feel uninspired and unmotivated. We keep procrastinating on our plans. More often than not, we get out of a rut, only to get back into another one.

How do you know if you are stagnating? Here are some tell-tale signs:

• If you have been experiencing chronic procrastination on your goals
• If you don’t ever feel like doing anything
• If you keep turning to sleep, eating, games, mindless activities and entertainment for comfort
• If you know you should be doing something, but yet you keep avoiding it
• If you have not achieved anything new or significant now relative to 1 month, 2 months or 3 months ago
• If you have a deep sense of feeling that you are living under your potential

When we face stagnation in life, it’s a sign of deeper issues. Stagnation, just like procrastination, is a symptom of a problem. It’s easy to beat ourselves over it, but this approach is not going to help. Here, I will share 5 steps to help you move out of this stagnation. They won’t magically transform your life in 1 night (such changes are never permanent because the foundations are not built), but they will help you get the momentum going and help you get back on track.

1. Realize you’re not alone

Everyone stagnates at some point or another. You are not alone in this and more importantly, it’s normal. In fact, it’s amazing how many of my clients actually face the same predicament, even though all of them come from different walks of life, are of different ages, and have never crossed paths. Realizing you are not alone in this will make it much easier to deal with this period. By trying to “fight it”, you’re only fighting yourself. Accept this situation, acknowledge it, and tell yourself it’s okay. That way, you can then focus on the constructive steps that will really help you.

2. Find what inspires you

Stagnation comes because there isn’t anything that excites you enough to take action. If you don’t have a habit of setting goals, and instead just leave yourself to daily mundanes, it’s not surprising you are experiencing stagnation. What do you want to do if there are no limitations? If you can have whatever you want, what will it be? The answers to these questions will provide the fuel that will drive you forward.

On the other hand, even if you are an experienced goal setter, there are times when the goals you set in the past lose their appeal now. It’s normal and it happens to me too. Sometimes we lose touch with our goals, since we are in a different emotional state compared to when we first set them. Sometimes our priorities change and we no longer want to work on those goals anymore. However, we don’t consciously realize this, and what happens is we procrastinate on our goals until it compounds into a serious problem. If that’s the case for you, it’s time to relook into your goals. There’s no point in pursuing goals that no longer inspire you. Trash away your old goals (or just put them aside) and ask yourself what you really want now. Then go for them.

3. Give yourself a break

When’s the last time you took a real break for yourself? 3 months? 6 months? 1 year? Never? Perhaps it’s time to take a time-out. Prolonged working can cause someone to become disillusioned as they lose sight of who they are and what they want.

Go take some extended leave from work. A few days at bare minimum; a few weeks or months will be great. Some of my ex-colleagues have quit their jobs and took months out to do some self-reflection. Of course, some of us might not have that luxury, so we can stick to a few weeks of leave. Go on a trip elsewhere and get away from your work and your life. Use this chance to get a renewed perspective of life. Think about your life purpose, what you want and what you want to create for your life in the future. These are big questions that require deep thinking over them. It’s not about finding the answers at one go, but about taking the first step to finding the answers.

4. Shake up your routines

Being in the same environment, doing the same things over and over again and meeting the same people can make us stagnant. This is especially if the people you spend the most time with are stagnant themselves.

Change things around. Start with simple things, like taking a different route to work and eating something different for breakfast. Have your lunch with different colleagues, colleagues you never talked much with. Work in a different cubicle if your work has free and easy seating. Do something different than your usual for weekday evenings and weekends. Cultivate different habits, like exercising every day, listening to a new series of podcasts every morning to work, reading a book, etc (here’s 6 Proven Ways To Make New Habits Stick). The different contexts will give you different stimulus, which will trigger off different thoughts and actions in you.

When I’m in a state of stagnancy, I’ll get a sense of what’s making me stagnate. Sometimes it’s the environment I’m in, sometimes it’s the people I’ve been hanging out with, sometimes it’s my lifestyle. Most of the times it’s a combination of all these. Changing them up helps to stir myself out of the stagnant mode.

5. Start with a small step

Stagnation also comes from being frozen in fear. Maybe you do want this certain goal, but you aren’t taking action. Are you overwhelmed by the amount of work needed? Are you afraid you will make mistakes? Is the perfectionist in you taking over and paralyzing you?

Let go of the belief that it has to be perfect. Such a belief is a bane, not a boon. It’s precisely from being open to mistakes and errors that you move forward. Break down what’s before you into very very small steps, then take those small steps, a little step at a time. I had a client who had been stagnating for a long period because he was afraid of failing. He didn’t want to make another move where he would make a mistake. However, not wanting to make a mistake has led him to do absolutely nothing for 2-3 years. On the other hand, by doing just something, you would already be making progress, whether it’s a mistake or not. Even if you make a supposed “mistake”,  you get feedback to do things differently in the next step. That’s something you would never have known if you never made a move.

source: http://www.lifehack.org/articles/lifehack/5-steps-to-move-out-of-stagnancy-in-life.html

Blast #001

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Skittish moth raptured by a fiery flame. The brave insect finally went out of her cocoon and explored the danger of the real world. Boo-hoo, as if! You wouldn't actually take her for the innocent and behave type, but you wouldn't categorize her as a Class A, adventurous hooker either. However, sources say that the moth finally spread her wings and went out to explore the dangers of the realm. That's when she was lured into a huge sparks of fire that warmed up and ignited her whole system. Easy moth... don't get too close to the glow that flared up your passion... you might end up getting burned.

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